McStay Family website received a few emails with potential sightings today. Information was forwarded to the detectives for their review, though I was told the FBI will be briefed tomorrow.
News/Updates
- U.S. News – Brother refuses to stop searching
- Inside Edition
- Summer’s Sister Speaks Out
- Two Years Later
- E! Investigates with Laura Ling
- E! Investigates McStay Family Vanishes!
- McStay’s are still Missing
- Isuzu – Video 7:47pm Feb 4, 2010
- Contents of the Vehicle
- Happy Birthday Gianni
- Billings Montana
- People Magazine & LA Times
- Lifetime Television – Vanished with Beth Holloway
- Another Dead End Lead
- Nothing New
- Associated Press lends a hand
- Justice with Judge Jeanine
- One Tough Year
- Happy Birthday Baby J
- Three Basic Paradigms
- Investigation Discovery – Disappeared
- Happy Thanksgiving
- Discovery
- Happy Birthday Joey
- New TV Show
- TV Show offers Help
- Disappeared TV Show
- Disappeared TV Show will Air our Case
- Six Months Have Passed
- Leads from AMW & Newspapers in Baja
- America’s Most Wanted – 9pm
- Baja Times – Eco – Gringo Gazette
- America’s Most Wanted
- Sighting in Baja?
- Two Gutwrenching Weeks – Nothing
- Potential Sightings in Mexico
- San Ysidro Flyer Distribution
- SC Times Ride-a-Long
- THANK YOU – OCB & Polly Klaas
- Fallbrook Flyer Distribution
- Chelsea King Memorial – I See Stars
- ABC 10 San Diego Interview
- SD Sheriff’s Video Released
- Blogger Releases Sensitive & Inconclusive Information
- The search continues
- Surveillance videos are being checked
- Equusearch to comb 40 miles of roadway
- A drone is being used in the search
- Police are working with Mexican authorities
- McStay Children Alert – National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
- SDSheriff’s Dept has Welcomed Texas EquuSearch
- Police review border tapes
- McStay Family support site created
News Articles
- mar 31 – aol news
- mar 30 – cnn
- mar 19 – nctimes
- mar 18 – nbc sd
- mar 13 – 1srg (search & rescue group)
- mar 12 – sign on san diego
- mar 12 – abc 10 san diego
- mar 08 – msn video
- mar 08 – abc news
- mar 07 – aol news
- mar 03 – cbs crimesider
- mar 01 – my valley news
- Investigation Discovery – Disappeared
- feb 28 – live leak
- feb 28 – contra costa times
- feb 27 – la times
- feb 26 – oc register
- feb 26 – america's most wanted
- feb 26 – abc news
- feb 26 – abc 7
- feb 25 – cnn
- feb 25 – 10 news san diego
- feb 24 – washington post
- feb 24 – sfgate
- feb 24 – san diego news
- feb 24 – oc register
- feb 24 – kfmb
- feb 24 – cbs news
- feb 23 – examiner
- feb 22 – fox news
- feb 22 – cnn
- feb 21 – news blaze
- feb 21 – aol news
- feb 20 – oc register
- feb 20 – news blaze
- feb 20 – los angeles times
- feb 20 – examiner
- feb 19 – north county times
- feb 19 – mercury news
- feb 19 – abc news
- feb 19 – abc news
- feb 18 – nbc san diego
- feb 16 – north county times
- apr 03 – sign on san diego





Lord , I pray so.Please let them be o.k.
I do also hope and pray the McStay Family will be found safe altogether, I m so sadden to hear of such types of news.
Mike, if you go to Mexico take a couple people with you and be careful. Maybe an FBI agent could go with you?? I pray for their return and safety. Please keep me updated.
Have you considered hiring a private investigator to try to locate them in Mexico?
I have been praying and praying that this family is ok. I live in Orangevale, Calif. which is by sacramento and have been following this story and wish i could do more to help, but i will be praying at Easter service at church for these sightings to be the family everyone has been looking for.
[...] looking into information about child passports to Mexico shortly before they vanished. On Thursday, relatives of the family said on their website that there have been several potential sighting of the family in Mexico. The [...]
I also hope and pray they are safe – please do keep us posted.
This case really baffle’s me. The authorities think it was the family walking into mexico on that tape, but it is too dark to tell. I am sure his brother and her sister and mother looked at that tape millions of times and can tell if its them. To disappear without a trace is one thing, but a whole family is another. I have watched the video clips and I am convinced there is foul play. If it was them walking into mexico, one thing, they do not look to be under any stress. So theres no force, 2) the car was parked blocks away, how about they were beating any kind of traffic when they got back. 3) eggs left of counter could have been easily forgotten. I have done that myself. 4) the dogs werent taken care of, well, if they were planning some small outting for a diner or anything that could be going on in that area that night, then there would be no need for anyone to care for the dogs. My conclusion, they went to mexico for a small outting, not a vacation or to run away from something, i feel as though they went on some small outting and met with foul play once they got there. Maybe i just watched too much police tv detective shows, but that is just my opinion.
I live 1 hour below the border in a american area, maybe if we had some flyers we could help get the info out, are they deeper down? Is the question? They are still so heavy on my heart and mind. Where are they how are they. God please help us find this family.
Michael, we are Fallbrook people and will be spending a month in Mexico, south of Puerto Vallarta. Is this near the area where there have been reported sightings? How about some flyers so that we can distribute them down in that area while we are there.
Mike, if there is anything I can do to help please, please. I currently live in San Diego. My heart goes out to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hi Mike
I hope you find your family real soon, I have prayed for them and am like everyone baffled. I did view the video of the family several times and it looks like your family to me, especially your sister-in-law and the boys. I don’t see them just up and leaving their dogs so it just doesn’t add up. Hopefully the answer will come soon. Maybe they intended to contact someone to take care of the dogs and for some reason were unable to do that
I would first like to say how heartbroken I am for your family as well as for Summers family. Please know that you are all in many, especially the boys. My stomach aches with the thought of any ill will toward them. I’ve read so many assumptions and Im amazed. For a family with no real financial issues, no criminal issues , etc to get up and walk away for even a short period of time is strange in itself. As a wife, mother, & friend, typically someone in your life even knows when your family is going out to dinner, someone usually knows your schedule. (mother, sister, girlfriend, coworker) Even if thats not the case, a close knit family doesnt disappear into thin air. We normal (so to speak) people don’t leave fridges full of food and our animals to starve. I truly believe there was someone in the home with your family or threating them to leave, reasons unknown obviously. They left their vehicle with no passport home for thier son. Who does that? What does “seem to be under no stress mean” as they head toward the border? If there was someone watching them, near them, or threating them from a distance, how would we know? I’m completely sure the first thing from the invasive person would be to say “Act normal”, right? I have 4 daughters and if they were threatened in anyway I would do what I was told with no looking back. I’m sure the FBI is very aware of the crazy things that the people in this world do and will continue to search adamantly for them. I will continue to lift them in prayer. I am so sorry that your family must deal with such an awful situation.
I have been watching this topic since day one and it saddens me. Being a Wife and Mother of two little girl’s it really hits home. I pray that they are all OK..maybe they did plan a trip and something went wrong..or perhaps they wanted to get lost for while. Anything BUT them coming to a tramatic end
My prayers are with the entire family.
Seems odd that there’s no word since last Saturday, April 3rd, anywhere in the news. Any update about the alleged sightings?
So now Joey McStay owns property in Mexico? Earlier stated that he would never go there and didn’t do business there.
Sounds like a hoax.
[ Belize actually, but land only.. no structure on it. ]
[ Doubt the FBI, SD Sheriff and other agencies would get involved if your opinion was accurate. [ Mike ]
Is it a mistake the reporter made? About Joey owning property in Mexico?
[ I contacted Jamal Al-Sarraf and it is being corrected. I also went online and commented on it also. ]
http://www.sanclementetimes.com/view/full_story/7004236/article-Two-possible-sightings-of-the-McStay-family?instance=eye_on_sc
Is Merida is in Belize? Otherwise this article is wrong and has turned the tide of opinion against this being a real story.
[ I contacted Jamal Al-Sarraf and it is being corrected. I also went online and commented on it also. ]
Why hasn’t the article been corrected, if Mike was quoted wrong? Come on Mike.
[ I contacted Jamal Al-Sarraf and it is being corrected. I also went online and commented on it also. ]
Mike, why haven’t you made sure the article’s been corrected, if your brother really does not own property in Mexico?
[ I contacted Jamal Al-Sarraf and it is being corrected. I also went online and commented on it also. ]
John Brooks
kartman70@yahoo.com
166.216.130.71
Just like I stated before. This is all an elaborate hoax the entire McScam family has brought up for their own way to better their lives through the weak resolve of mindless people.
The truth will come out, and just like the balloonboy nutcase, hopefully this entire family will get thrown behind bars for pulling a bernie on you all.
God, Ponzi schemes are so easy now. Enjoy that steak dinner and new mercedes these idiots paid for mike!
John, your words are cruel and cyncial. If you knew Mikey and his family, if you experienced this with them and saw their tears and knew their struggles, you could never be so heartless. I challenge you to find more honest or loving people anywhere on the planet. I can assure you that a new mercedes and steak dinners are the farthest thing from his mind! He is pouring all his efforts and resources into one thing: finding his family.
A family is missing, and their loved ones suffer daily in their absence. Please do not add to their suffering. They need our prayers and support, and if you cannot offer either, please show some respect and decency by remaining silent.
John Brooks is a dumb ass and needs to shut his mouth. Mikey has his own family to support and has been losing money , spending 2 months looking for his brother basically all by himself. That is why there is not as many updates as some would like and as much detail as some would like.This is very overwhelming for the Family.
I really encourage people to use this website for exchanging information and offering help and encouragement. Please find some other way to vent negativity. This isn’t the place.
That bit of misinformation should make it very clear that there are a lot of folks, no matter how insignificant, but with keyboards, who are noticing the details of your story and giving lots of publicity to it, indirectly of course. Which I hope really helps you and yours. This is a frightening, sad, awful thing to happen to anyone, anywhere. Use your power to get the messages out accurately and for good purpose, Mr Mike. Stay Strong.
Still keeping your family in my thoughts, and hoping for the very best.
So sorry, Mike, for the suffering your family is going through right now. I have been following this case since the beginning and am concerned that there haven’t been updates posted since April 1. This is the primary website people are coming to looking for information. Is there anything new to report? Even if there’s no news, perhaps just a short note from you–just so people know this is still an active missing persons case. I’m certainly hoping for the best and keeping your family in my thoughts.
I am the wife of a police officer and the daughter of one too, please take the money and hire a PI, law enforcement and the FBI today have their hands full of crazy people, everywhere is crazy, people have no jobs, no homes, no money,
it is the time of desperation for many.
A private detective can pick up clues that the locals and FBI might be missing, he devotes all his time to your case, yes they may be expensive but use the donations to find your family…..
My husband always says, 9 out of 10 times they know the abductor or the persons who commited the crime,
I would hope noone would be desperate enough to exploit children for their own selfish greed, I am sure this family is truly missing but the family needs to take the right steps to find them…accusations always surround doubt…….
Hi Mike,
It’s been awhile since this site has been updated. Praying that Joey, Summer, and the kids are found safe soon!
Hi Mikey,
It’s Shane your cousin. Living in Florida now. Just letting you know that as far as a SW Florida Wallmart, Joey and his family are featured on the the Missing Children’s display in the center of the board and enlarged. They are surrounded by hundreds of smaller pictures of other missing children. So at least that is positive. Our prayers are with you from the other side of the continent.
Shane
Hi Mikey, I applaud the way you care so deeply and I pray for a healthy resolution for you
and your loved ones.
Im scared to imagine what couldve happened to them! especially since human trafficing seems popular these days. This whole ordeal sends chills down my spine. Whats even more frightening is the very same thing could happen to my family. This case reminds me of the o’hair case, and their house was left in the same creepy “frozen in time way”. I dont think they would be in that heavy traffic and attempt to cross the border just for dinner. My heart goes out to that family. I hope for the best, but this dont look good at all.
I am so sorry for the family’s loss. I just watched this family’s story on Investigation Discovery and now I know what they look like and will keep an eye out for them where I live, although I do not know if they will be in Illinois. I pray for all of you and hope for a safe return for this beautiful family.
I seen this a few nights ago on ID. They said that the taped footage is of them walking across the boarder, but i don’t understand how or why there is no cameras on the other side to view the faces of people coming into Mexico. Also, it stated that the toys that were bought were pretty pricey items. considering it doesn’t show on a bank statement where these were purchased and there wasn’t a receipt, my guess it she did buy them off craigslist. (where she looked up toys). I also don’t understand why the toys were covered with a blanket or whatever it was in the back. If it was to surprise the kids with then they would have been left with a family member while they picked them up. I’m convinced it has to do with the person who sold them the toys off Craigslist. Also the pictures shown on ID were of the toys still in wrapping (or at least it looked that way). have they checked finger prints on those items?
I know that there are incredibly intelligent and trained individuals working on this case. And I am sure these avenues have been explored , but just for the sake of saying it-have the computers been traced back to see specifically what searches were done on crags list, and the sellers of the items contacted to determine if or when items were last purchased. Including the language educational software. I am confident with many hours of phone calls any contacts made through craigslist could be found. Does the site have records of the people who have listed items in the past? I agree with comments on the first page. As a mom I believe the toys were covered because they were a birthday present, one or both Joey and summer did not want the boys to see. I would finger print the toys to see if you can determine who bought them – whose prints are found more on the toys who lifted them into the car- this person was likely not aware they were going on a trip. Can it be determined who was cooking the eggs. Are both prints present on the pan that was being cooked- not sure if prints wash off in dishwasher.
Furthermore – it is my opinion that the family would not cross into Mexico for a short trip or just to check something out after being out of contact with the universe for four days. If Summer was as hesitant about a trip to Mexico as it is portrayed in the disappeared show they would have contacted someone and told them their plans in case something went wrong.
I have never been so haunted and saddened by a tv show. I check this site regularly for new entries. I pray for a lead that will break this case wide open.
I just saw the story on tv about this family. Has anyone checked into his facebook account to see if something would pan out there? Look at his friends,there back grounds anything??? Just a thought. Again, like other posts maybe I watch to many crime shows,just trying to help find this poor family. I pray for all!
I was watching the video of the family on their house hunting trip and if you listen carefully to what Summer is saying, she is very negative about the area, she makes it very clear she does not want to live there. She say’s that Joseph is bringing them in a different way to the house so that they don’t go through shack town. She is very sarcastic in the video and at one point Joseph says ,Shut up! He tries to be positive and say that they are not far from Oceanside beach, but she just keeps it up with the nasty remarks. This women could have been so unhappy that she killed her husband then fled to Mexico with the kids, after she got rid of his body. Only a theory….
i am so sorry for the familys of the mcstays. it makes me sick, i just saw the tv show the other nite, and it has haunted me ever since. i spoke about it to many people i meet. i still think the witness protection program might have something to do with it. i hope they are safe and contact you all.. i will be checking in often. god bless all of you…. sandy
i am so sorry for the familys of the mcstays. it makes me sick, i just saw the tv show the other nite, and it has haunted me ever since. i spoke about it to many people i meet. i still think the witness protection program might have something to do with it. i hope they are safe and contact you all.. i will be checking in often. god bless all of you…. sandy
I just read the people magazine story in the 5/30/11 issue. I believe i heard about the McStays before. My heart breaks for your family. I hope you find them. My advice is to leave no stone unturned. Even if it sounds nothing like your family( involvement with drugs, bad business deal,etc.). Sometimes there are things people are involved in that even their closest friends and family members have no clue about. Follow every lead, idea,etc no matter how crazy. I wish you and your family the best.
I heard about this story today. It saddens me and my prayers are with the family.
I pray that they all come home safe and sound. And this is for the detectives, all house employees that where workin on the home were they investigated in everyway and form. The children are very good lookin kids what if someone was in the truck with them at the time they left the home no one can actually see who drove. When the vehicle was abandoned it is a possibility they wered usurped by someone else, make believe it was them. I believe the waiter lied he probably did see the children but the adults were not them. Has a psychic medium intervened? I absolutely feel that would help wonders. But I’m praying and they will come home soon?
What would it take to get the FBI involved if they haven’t already? It’s been almost two years, and due to the nature of the care for there two boys there is no way they would of took them in to Mexico that late at night. No possible way, something or someone forced them, and they need to be found.
I am writing this note with a heavy heart. I can only empathize with your family and the pain you must go through everyday but please be assured I will also be thinking and praying for you also, as well as your missing loved ones.
I am writing this note with a heavy heart. I can only empathize with your family and the pain you must go through everyday but please be assured I will also be thinking and praying for you also, as well as your missing loved ones.
I hate hearing this type of tragic news especially when kids r involved
…. My prayers r with the family i really hope they find them soon…. Maybe try a psychic it might be a good resource i know they have negative and positive feedback but it wont hurt to try…
After watching the E! special yesterday I cannot stop thinking about your family. Of all the odd things in this case, I found Joey’s friend that was interviewed on the special to be the most peculiar. Seemed like he did know more than he said. I’m obviously nobody meaningful to the situation but my gut says they’re all alive and that they did meet up with the friend early on. It’s all just so strange. BUT if someone wanted to “fall off the face of the Earth” going into Mexico seems like a good start. The woman on the special that said she had seen the family a Wal Mart was SO sure it was them, and she had multiple chances to get a pretty good visual. I think it’s totally believeable that they just wanted to vanish…or that they are in fact in witness protection. Otherwise, it was foul play on the wife’s part…something was rather fishy about her internet searches prior to February 4th. Whatever it is, Mike, I hope you and all other family members get to see the four of them again someday. I will continue thinking about you and your family every single day and hoping for an ending, a happy one, to this story.
I live in Belize and heard that they might be living in Belize. I’m praying that they are alive
Whole families don’t just get up and leave. Did authorities ever find out who was at the door late one evening when Summer was on the phone to her friend? That could be really important and the key to the whole thing.
What would make them all leave at a drop of a hat? It would have to be something like being told a loved one had been in an accident etc… Kids that age would normally be in bed at that time of night unless of a special occasion or an emergency?
I hope they are alive and well, but for a normal close family to just up and leave on their own accord, sorry, it doesn’t ring true. I think they are victims of foul play, the parents at least. The kids could be anywhere. The birthmark on the younger child could also be gone now. If it is a strawberry mark, these disappear on their own after a few years.
I really hope this is resolved soon as not knowing is worse. Stay strong and all the best.
Hi Mike,
Your missing family is always in my prayers, I hope they are fine.
I just saw few days ago the Disapared progran in TV. I’m leaving in TJ, but my parents leave in San Quintin, Baja California. Mex. (3hrs to the south) I have been traveling over there too many times to visit them and I have never seen a flayer with the Mcstay family information, there are some check point in the way and I think they most have the information. There are a lot of restaurants a long of the way and eather have any flayer.
I offer my help to distribute the flayers (I’m not asking for money), my relatives leave there and we can do.
Always in my prayers you and your family. (I’m mother of two loving kids)
Thanks (sorry about my english)